Have been living with this man for almost 3 years now. The relationship has been on and off from the first day. Yes, I know I should have left long time ago but it is not all that easy when you leave your job and bring all your furniture, let out your flat, etc, etc.
He has asked me to leave many times but has also asked me to stay many times. All of a sudden, I get a letter from his solicitor giving me 4 weeks to leave as 'reasonable time'. I talk with 'my partner' and askes him to stay longer as I have the tenants (according with the law you have to serve them 2 mths notice) and am going thru medical treatment in this area so would like to finish it be4 moving away. He asks me to forget about the letter and all is fine again. After 3 wks, he wants me to leave again and denies having said the 'forget about the letter'. He gets more and more obsessed and starts opening my emails, listening to my ph conversations. I tell him to stop. We have a row and he strangles me.
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This guy is nuts. If the "leave" "don't leave" bit was not enough to convince you of this then the second he put his hands on you in anger should have been. Now he's obsessing? How many warning signs do you need?
Get out now! - Not because of his lawyers letter but because you have self respect and no desire to be murdered. (After all, your medical treatment in the area is not going to be worth a damn if your dead.)
Not only get out now - run away as far from this nut job as you can and never look back.
Move out, put your stuff in storage and crash on a friends couch until your place is vacant again.
Good luck.
HE HAS ASSAULTED YOU,YOU ALSO HAVE COMMON LAW WIFE RIGHTS,HE HAS COMMITTED AN OFFENCE BY OPENING YOUR MAIL, NEED I GO ON ,GET DOWN TO THE CITIZENS ADVICE OFFICE AND TAKE IT FROM THERE ,BUT DO,NT MOVE OUT, IF HE GETS VIOLENT GET THE POLICE,DO,NT THREATEN IT,GET THEM.
As for the law, it sounds like it is on your side. Follow the advice above.
But as for your personal morality, it sounds as if you have been ignoring this guy's signals for a long time. He has wanted you out of his life for ages and you have just kept pushing in the opposite direction. He's at the end of his tether.
LET HIM GO.
I necessary let them start proceedings it will take months.
HE does not require to start any proceedings at all when the day comses the deadline date he as given you if you dont leave he will just get the police to come and escort you of the property you have no rights in law re the tenancy and you also have no actual common law rights at all. if it is house and he doesnt want you there you are a tresspasser and you can be removed. you have been CO-HABITING and you have no rights at all. leave the property when told take no notice of
anybody who says you have tenancy rights you have **** whole rights. in fact if you refuse to leave you may be arrested
from the sounds of things he will be well rid of you.
YOU HAVE NO LAWFUL RIGHT TO STAY IN THE HOUSE OR FLAT IF THE OWNER DOES NOT WANT YOU THERE BELIEVE ME COMMON LAW RIGHTS DO NOT EXIST YET
jed slade you have not got a clue what you are talking about
stillooking9696 you are the same completley clueless it is HIS HOUSE NOT HERS
Go to the courthouse and ask them to help you file for a "Petition for Injunction" It is a protection order. They can waive the fee to file if your income is low but I suggest that you pay for it. Bring copies of the police report and file a complaint. His soliciter should also be included if he is harassing you at this time. You can actually ask for a no contact order from the judge that prevents either of them from contacting %26 threatening you. By the time everything is said and done your tenants should be moved out by then and you can safely move. Don't drop your complaint..continue to participate as you may need it in the future. AND please don't let him talk you into putting yourself BACK in that position again. He is just trying to manipulate you to get his way about one thing or the other. He wants to see you cry and beg to stay..while he continues with his abuse(verbal or otherwise) Get the hell out of there and get that protection order.
You'll get some wild and fanciful (and therefore dangerous) advice on here. You need proper legal advice. Go and see a solicitor, most will give you the first interview free.
i suggest you get the hell out of there, or things might turn really nasty
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